10 January 2009

Crying Out Loud! Mind your Tears?

Good Day to everyone, and nice to meet you! Again, start from the Topic itself I think you should know what is it all about. Well, let me tell you again, this is not something only have connections for crying and tears only! This title is about your emotions and how do you handle it. I am not going to teach you how to solve your emotions problem or nether giving you a solution but I will tell you about emotions and the cause plus on why it happens! Everyone in this world have emotions even the president or prime minister himself! No one can tell you specifically how he is going to feel in the next minutes or days. Example: Before you read this you are being curious what is this all about and now I am trying telling you that you just won a Million dollars or maybe more reality is, your mother is a Bitch! Now tell me how do you feel? You will think that this guy writing some bullshit and it is not worthy to continue reading. Well, let me tell you something, this is EMOTIONS! Some people tend to get angry easily and some people just being calm all the time as they know they need to react somehow to show they have respond and able to think. This is a good Symptom as it shows that your brain is still functioning.

Now let start the main topic shall we? Emotions have two categories such as the negative and the positive site. Emotions are something that is intangible and unable to see or feel by other peoples but only you yourself can define your own emotions and feelings at the moment. So is there any different between feelings and emotions? Actually there is and how? Emotions can categories in more particularly such as fear, anxiety, negativity, frustration, depressions and so on. This is the emotions that what normally we have for the negative category and as for the feelings such as anger, sadness, Jealousy and so on. From here we know that emotions are the main controller to your feelings and eventually to your physical action. You might cry, fight, stone and so on. What surrounding area and stuff that actually can cause us to have all this feeling? Some example: being disappointed? Joy? Surprise? Trustworthy? Unable to handle the entire work load?

When we human is in the emotional status, our body produce chemical as we call the chemical reaction. Not nuclear OK!!...... When we are in the negative stat then our body will produce negative chemical reaction that eventually can cause serious illness if there is too much of it. So on with the positive but we will be much healthier. Throughout the whole emotional status can be consider as psychological status because all this is being control by our mental or intellectual faculties of though, perceptions, reasons and memory. Our emotions is being control by the belief system and normally emotions is being build up through your mostly experience or how your were being raise up and whom you mix with the most. It is one of the processes from what we see and hear from everyday! This belief system will start to evaluate what you see and learn then ka-boom your emotions starts to fill up! Why we have this all emotions while actually we don’t even have to show it out? It is good that if you have good emotions but what is it for the sadness and stress? What is that all about? This is the reason that you don’t know how to handle yourself and you don’t know about yourself clearly! The real things is, people, places and things cannot changes how you feel actually. It is just a process of what you see and hear. Giving you an example again: When one of your most nearest relative or your eldest died and you cry and shed a few tears that is normal, but if you still cry for the next few months then you are in serious trouble! Every human will die and this is just part of our process. We are being born and until the day you are old then you will go to the lights. Learn to accept the truth and facts that things do always happen in our life but again, try to fix the problem rather just to keep complaining, stress or give up! There is nothing impossible in this world, it is the matter of time and again I strongly want to tell you that I am not asking you to be cruel or wick! Everything will just turn back to you as what normally people will say is, if you plant a seed of mango and you will and a mango tree. The most important thing is how you plant it, water it, taking care and from there you will have a strong bond between yourself and your emotions. You are the supreme of your own emotions.

As in the news paper every day we can read some raping issues, student murder teacher and so on. Why is this happening? The reason is because no one is trying to listen to the others and end up they are lost and if can try to help your friends or your family members and one things is they are human so do you! Respect the others and gain respect from there, don’t just think about yourself and start to eliminate the others as power of a man will never chop the whole jungle down but with power of men can clear the whole tress and start their own empire! Again, strongly remind you all, emotions start with your own and you are the only one that can suppress your own self. If you need to talk to somebody, try to talk to the professional in your schools, parents, trusted friends and the best is have a drinks and relax your mind then cultivate yourself whether is it worthy to shed so much tears as in the end still don’t have any results?......Thank you and again, this is just an advice and I am no doctor or professional here. Use these ideas if they are helping you if not please don’t come and start to chopped me into pieces....just kidding ...have a good day!


Timothy

Typical Malaysian ...Quite True Also But Maybe Not For Some ...Real Funny

What Makes A Malaysian A Malaysian?
1. A typical young Malaysian can name all the players from a top English Premier League club, but ask him to name one football player from Malaysia, he cannot!

2. When StreamyX come, you complain StreamyX too slow. When Maxis Broadband come, you complain Maxis Broadband always disconnects. When WiMax come, you complain Wimax too expensive. In the end, you say StreamyX still the best lah.

3. When highway toll price increase, you complain. When petrol price increase, you complain. When you go Starbucks buy RM10 coffee, NO COMPLAINTS.

4. When you cannot find parking in a shopping mall and have to walk very far, you complain. When you go inside the shopping mall and there's SALE, run from one end of 1Utama to the other, that one NO COMPLAINT.

5. You are always late. And the excuse you give when you're late is always either: (a) traffic jam (b) no transport or (c) cannot find parking.

6. You have a parent who forces you to take science stream in high school, study engineering in Uni, then when you graduate, they ask you to forget everything you learnt in Uni and do commerce.

7. You know someone who can specially develop an angmoh accent when speaking to an American / British / Australian.

8. You complain against the government in kopitiam, you talk loud loud. Leave anonymous comments on blogs, you also talk loud loud. Attend ceremah by DAP, you shout loud loud. Then when Opposition organise a protest and ask you to go, you dun wan. Scared later kena tangkap by ISA.

9. Every year on the 30th April, you are one of the people below queuing up last minute to submit your tax return at the IRB.

10. When you pay RM10 for something that costs RM1, you blame the Chinese.

11. When a government service is too slow, you blame the Malays.

12. When a building is not good and collapsed, you blame the Indians.

13. When a Chinese student won a scholarship, you say 'Wah! Very clever hor?' When a Malay student won a scholarship, you say 'Aiya! Of course lah! He Malay mah!'

14. When an angmoh stranger kisses you on the cheek to say hello, you very happy. When a Malaysian guy kisses you on the cheek to say hello, you slap him in face.

09 January 2009

Who To Blame? Me? You? Them?

Mistake, Mistake and Mistake. In this world everyone did mistake in their life, job, relationship, games, health even money. So there is nothing perfect in this world, if you tell someone you are a very perfect person then there is one word to describe you, BULLSHIT. You try to be the best, and the best can’t afford to lose, so you will work hard to achieve your goal and again, you will be very tired in your life. Is it that hard to just relax yourself? Is it that hard if you don’t compete with anyone in your life? As a way to make things clear, just compete with yourself. Not to the others, the reason is everyone has their weakness and strength in their personalities. So think again, if you win someone, you are just having a better strength in your personality compare to the others while if someone win you, what do you feel? Disappointed? Angry? Shameful? Happy? This will depends on you as you are the only one will know yourself the best. But why are you still competing yourself with others? Making a mistake is a no big deal, why is it so? The reason is you learn from the mistake, and you continue your life with more confident and responsibility. Disagree?

Then I will tell you why you mustn’t disagree with this fact is because we tend to run away from responsibility and that is the time we will never face the fact and truth but start to blame the others or putting people in jeopardize. As an example: The lecturer gave you all a group assignment to do and eventually your group pass up the assignment, but the lecturer is not satisfy with your work, so mostly of you will get a big “present” from the lecturer and that’s is the time you all will start to blame your peers. Seldom that you can see group members will go along together till finish the assignment, very sure that there will be quarrel in the group as everyone wanted to do the “easy” job. Come to think again, sometimes the group member or the group leader will take the advantage as a group leader by giving his members the entire tough job, and he himself will only do the printing and many more. The main reason why quarrel can happen is because no one would like to be unfairly treated. How can all this happen? Who is in the blame? Think again, if everyone will start to think in the same way, then all the pictures can be seen clearly. Why all this can happen, to tell the truth is when a person start to blame the others, that is the moment the person is running away from responsibility. But again of course, if it is really not your fault then try to figure out a way to solve the problem rather killing each other by backstabbing, put the blame on the others, the solution is accept it and practice it in the future by not doing the same mistake again and again, but, if you do so, then you are a retard.

Now we know why people love to blame the others, how we must stop it from happening again? Peace through power? Love everyone? NO NO NO!!! You are not god or supremacy, so we think like human and act like a human. Since young your teacher, your parents or maybe you never heard it before, respect the others if you want people to respect you! How true is this statement? Some even get backstabbed even they respect the others, so if you are the one who is in this situation, are you going to blame the others or yourself for not being careful enough? As we all know that this world is not a perfect world but everyone is complaining every day. Instead of improving, mostly people will just lay back and start blaming everyone who is in their way to achieve their gold, and sometime we even blame the God. As I mention just now, accept the truth and mistake then sort out a way to solve the problem. But how? How to solve the problem? You must improve your own personality skills. Don’t be lazy, think positive but ready for the worst cause if you are ready for the worst then you won’t be hurt so deeply and many more. But again, everything starts with your own. Why do I say so? Cause human is the worst animal in this earth. We kill, we rape, we love, we care, we cherish, we pray and all starts from us. So, if you want to have a better day in anywhere, all will start from us. If we can destroy the others why can’t we fix the others? You might think why should I help, while it is not my duty to do so, let me give you an example again: If someone needs your help and you refuse, think in another way, how do you feel? Of course you will be disappointed and if from bad to worst you might even hate him for not helping you. But think again, why that person doesn’t want to help you? Is it because you once treated him that way? Or the way how you approach is not friendly enough? Is it that guy also need the same help from the others? So there is so many possibilities that we don’t have an excuse to blame the others so DON’T!

From what I wrote just now, I am not asking you to be God, but all this is the basic of what we must know and learn. It is not easy to practice it in this world but if you do so, trust me; there will be no gaps within everyone. As long there is human this basic rules will be there for every one of us. Respect the other even though they don’t respect you because if you do so, you are showing that you have a better personalities and status compare to them. As what I said just now, compete with yourself and this is one of the example. So, Get all the main point I Wrote? If you understand then congrate to you!! And if you don’t understand feel free to add me in
shtca@hotmail.com to ask me or if request about love? Studies? Work? Anything that I can help.


Timothy